The Three Questions The Test of Three The Three Gates   Whatever you call it, it’s a filtering system designed to help you decide if what you’re thinking is actually worth saying out loud.  It works by having you…

What Will You Learn About Your Marriage?   In China, as coronavirus home quarantine orders have been lifted in certain areas, government offices are open again. And divorce filings have spiked.   I am not surprised. In the United…

The other day I was talking to a wise friend about my desire to live my fullest potential from my soul’s perspective.   Of all the possibilities and collaborations my spirit envisioned before taking on a human body, I…

I’ve been immersing myself in the story and gospel of Mary Magdalene lately. Without going into the historical significance or connection here, suffice it to say that it became important to me to find and walk a labyrinth.  …

Are you familiar with the Invisible Gorilla test? In a psychological experiment that has since become famous, the subjects watch a video of a group of players tossing a basketball back and forth amongst themselves.   They are asked…

Pre-Michelangelo, it was not uncommon for sculptors in the 15th century to create a small clay model as a sort of blueprint for what they wanted their finished sculpture to look like.  They would then force and fashion their…

Years ago, when I was dating toward my first marriage, I had a long list of requisite qualities I wanted in a potential mate: dark hair (as a ginger myself, I hoped to give any potential offspring the best…

One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began, though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice. Mary Oliver   I remember vividly the back-and-forth that occurred in my mind as it became clear…

We absorb a set of beliefs before we are old enough to think for ourselves, and unless we question them, they become the default lenses through which we enter into every situation we encounter. Geneen Roth, Lost and Found…